The Link Between Child Abuse and Mental and Behavioral Health and How to Begin Healing

Thrive • April 28, 2022

By Thrive Sacramento Therapist Annelise Scellier, AMFT, APCC

At such impressionable ages, children who experience adverse childhood experiences such as abuse face an increased risk of developing health concerns as they grow into adults. The trauma of child abuse can interfere with mental, emotional, and behavioral development. Guided by mental health clinicians, however, individuals who experienced abuse in their childhood can find healing.

ADVERSE CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES 

Adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) is a term used within the mental health space to describe potentially traumatic events that have been linked to an increase in the risk of negative outcomes on physical, mental, and/or behavioral health

Examples of ACEs include:

  • Child abuse/neglect, including physical, emotional, psychological, verbal, or sexual
  • Having a family member who is depressed or diagnosed with other mental illness
  • Having a family member who is in prison
  • Witnessing a parent being abused
  • Losing a parent to separation, divorce, or death

According to the Center for Disease Control (CDC) , 61% of adults had at least one ACE and 16% had four or more types of ACEs in their upbringing. The higher one’s exposure to ACEs, the greater their risk is of facing negative health consequences later in life. Also according to the CDC, ACEs are associated with at least five of the top 10 leading causes of death, and preventing ACEs could reduce the number of adults with depression by as much as 44%.

CHILD ABUSE AND NEGLECT

Under the umbrella of ACEs, child abuse and neglect can lead to the development of mental and behavioral health conditions, such as depression , anxiety , eating disorders and substance use disorders . Child abuse and neglect is categorized into four types: 

1. Child Neglect

The most common type of child mistreatment, child neglect occurs when a child’s caregiver(s) fail to consistently provide for the child’s basic needs, including food, shelter, clothing, access to medical care, and access to education. Neglect may also involve failing to protect the child from harm or the threat of harm such as by exposing the child to domestic violence, leaving the child unsupervised, or leaving the child with neglectful caregivers. 

2. Physical Abuse

Physical abuse occurs when a child is exposed to physical harm that leads to an injury, whether the injury is caused intentionally or not. Injuries can involve bruises, cuts, broken bones, muscle sprains, and burns in addition to others. Such injuries may result from hitting with hands or objects, slapping, punching, kicking, throwing, burning, or other forms of physical violence. 

3. Emotional, Psychological, or Verbal Abuse

This type of abuse occurs when a child is exposed to persistent non-physical abuse. Some examples of emotional, psychological, and verbal child abuse include: 

  • Bullying
  • Demeaning
  • Belittling
  • Criticizing 
  • Verbally attacking
  • Dismissing
  • Invalidating 
  • Threatening

The effects of emotional, psychological, and verbal abuse on a child can be both internal and external.

When children internalize abuse, it may manifest as:

Alternatively, when children externalize abuse, it may manifest as:

  • Acting out
  • Delinquency
  • Hostility
  • Performing poorly in school
  • Withdrawing from social groups and activities they once enjoyed

4. Sexual Abuse

Sexual abuse occurs when a child is sexually exploited by an adult. By law, because a child cannot give consent to any sexual acts, any sexual activity between a child and an adult is considered sexual abuse. 

Types of sexual abuse include: 

  • Molestation 
  • Any kind of sexual intercourse
  • Exposing genitals to a child or masturbating in front of them
  • Child pornography (owned or produced)
  • Any interactions with the child that are sexual in nature
  • Forcing a child to perform sexual acts
  • Use of objects to perform sexual acts with a child

HOW CHILD ABUSE AND NEGLECT AFFECT MENTAL AND BEHAVIORAL HEALTH

Human bodies have built-in stress response mechanisms that help protect us from threats. When there is a perceived or real threat such as that of abuse or neglect, the body releases stress hormones including cortisol and adrenaline. If the body is exposed to stress hormones for extended periods of time, intense, or recurrent periods, as can be the case for those exposed to abuse or neglect, the excess cortisol and adrenaline will disrupt important processes in the body and the brain. 

Because their brains and bodies are still developing, children and adolescents are especially vulnerable to the negative impacts of stress hormones. Stress hormones brought on by child abuse or neglect can interfere with the healthy development of neural pathways and alter the immune system and endocrine system, leading to increased risk for mental, behavioral, and physical health problems. 

Research suggests that some types of abuse and neglect are more strongly correlated with the later development of negative mental and behavioral outcomes, such as: 

  • Emotional abuse: Considered the strongest predictor of depressive disorders and suicide attempts. 
  • Physical abuse/neglect and sexual abuse: Linked to antisocial personality disorder, substance abuse, delinquent behaviors, and eating disorders.
  • All kinds of abuse and neglect: Linked to increased impulsivity, dissociation, difficulty focusing, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) , self-harming behaviors , and high-risk behaviors such as smoking, drug and alcohol use, and promiscuity. Research also suggests that children exposed to abuse are more likely to abuse or neglect their own children, as well as to experience additional abuse or neglect from others. 

For more on the link between ACEs and mental and behavioral health struggles, consider watching this TED Talk on how childhood trauma affects health across a lifetime by pediatrician Nadine Burke Harris.

HEALING FROM MENTAL AND BEHAVIORAL HEALTH CONCERNS ASSOCIATED WITH CHILD ABUSE

The main course of treatment for individuals struggling with mental or behavioral health due in part to child abuse involves trauma-focused therapy, which may draw on different modalities and interventions, including:

  • Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR): Uses eye movement to integrate a person’s emotional experience with their cognitive experience.
  • Trauma-focused cognitive-behavioral therapy (TF-CBT): A form of talk therapy used to treat childhood trauma.

Whatever methods are used, the therapist-guided process of healing from child abuse generally involves:

  • Acknowledging: The person acknowledges that child abuse or neglect occurred and that it wasn’t their fault.
  • Understanding: The individual develops a fuller understanding of the implications of the abuse or neglect, including how it affects their life, their relationship with themself, and their relationships with others
  • Processing: The client processes the emotions tied to the abuse or neglect, especially any feelings of guilt, shame, and self-blame. 
  • Accepting the past: The client comes to accept their traumatic experiences. 
  • Regaining balance : The person re-establishes their sense of safety and control over their present life.
  • Addressing attachment problems: The person addresses any difficulties forming and maintaining healthy relationships. 
  • Connecting: Instead of isolating, the individual connects with those in their life who provide nourishing and meaningful relationships.
  • Self-care : The client dedicates time and effort to taking care of their mental and physical health, while also developing healthy habits .
  • Developing awareness of unhealthy coping mechanisms: The person becomes aware of any unhealthy methods of numbing their emotions, such as self-harm, disordered eating behaviors , and substance use.
  • Developing healthy coping skills: The individual develops strategies for grounding themselves, regulating their emotions, and managing stress.

GROW WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED

Whether you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, an eating disorder, or another mental or behavioral health concern, Thrive therapists and psychiatrists can provide specialized, compassionate, and effective care to those struggling with the implications of ACEs such as child abuse and neglect. We wholeheartedly believe you deserve to thrive —not just survive — and our experts will help you do just that. Reach out to learn more about our mental and behavioral health services

About the Author

Thrive Sacramento Therapist Annelise Scellier, AMFT, APCC

After acquiring a bachelor’s degree in psychology from the University of California, Davis, Annelise Scellier earned her master’s degree in clinical mental health counseling from Sonoma State University with concentrations in marriage and family therapy and professional clinical counseling. She is registered in California as both an associate marriage and family therapist (AMFT) and associate professional clinical counselor (APCC).

With previous experience working in a residential eating disorder treatment center as well as a psychotherapy clinic, she offers invaluable services to clients combating eating disorders and co-occurring conditions. As a therapist at Thrive Wellness Sacramento, she fuels her passion for helping individuals and families on their journey toward better health. Annelise works inclusively with clients of all ages, backgrounds, and orientations and strives to normalize seeking professional support for mental and behavioral health concerns despite societal and cultural stigmas.

Annelise is originally from France and enjoys caring for her adorable, free-roaming pet rabbits, Parsnip and Pickle, in her spare time.

Download our free wellness guide.

Discover the power of small, sustainable changes with "How to Thrive: 10 Simple Habits for Healthy Living." This guide offers practical, easy-to-follow habits that promote physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

December 2, 2025
Like the fir tree, a symbol of endurance rooted in hope, our Family Inclusive Recovery (FIR) approach reflects the strength that grows when families face challenges together. At our new residential center “The Greenhouse”, FIR is more than a treatment model, it’s a philosophy of healing that places families at the heart of recovery for adolescents and young adults navigating eating disorders, anxiety disorders, and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). We believe lasting healing doesn’t happen in isolation; it’s built with the support of families through perseverance, hope, and compassionate care. What Is Family Inclusive Recovery (FIR)? Family Intensive Recovery (FIR) is a specialized and immersive approach that actively engages caregivers as central agents in their child’s healing process. Rather than seeing families as contributors to a problem, we view them as essential partners in recovery. Drawing from two evidence-based frameworks, Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions (SPACE) and Family-Based Treatment (FBT), FIR helps families cultivate resilience, confidence, and connection throughout the journey to recovery. Grounded in SPACE and FBT Through the SPACE model, parents learn how to recognize and reduce well-intentioned but unhelpful behaviors known as accommodations that can reinforce anxiety and OCD symptoms. By shifting from rescuing to supporting and challenging, parents develop the confidence to guide their child through discomfort, helping them build distress tolerance and self-trust. Simultaneously, Family-Based Treatment (FBT) empowers families to take an active, compassionate role in their child’s nutritional and emotional recovery. Parents learn how to support weight and nutritional restoration, disrupt the eating disorder’s patterns, and reestablish boundaries that promote health and growing autonomy. Together, these approaches strengthen both the individual and family system, allowing recovery to take root within an environment of empathy and optimism. From Blame to Collaboration A cornerstone of the FIR model is removing blame. At Thrive, parents are not viewed as the cause of their child’s struggles, but rather as key partners in recovery. Treatment focuses on joining forces to create a safe, supportive environment where: Families learn to sit with their child's discomfort alongside them without rushing to fix or control it. Parents practice compassionate firmness, setting boundaries grounded in care and safety. Teens and caregivers rebuild trust through open, honest communication. This collaborative framework helps families reestablish a sense of connection and confidence, fostering long-term resilience and open communication that extends beyond the treatment setting. Why Family Matters in Recovery Recovery from eating disorders, OCD, or anxiety isn’t a one-person job, it requires integrated care including the family. When families learn to navigate challenges together, they can model emotional regulation, reinforce healthy boundaries, and create conditions for sustained recovery. Through FIR, we aim to strengthen attachment bonds, reshape family interactions, and empower every member of the family to grow. The result is not only symptom reduction but also a deeper sense of unity, hope, and shared endurance, just like the steadfast fir tree that stands resilient through every season. Moving Toward Hope Family Inclusive Recovery invites caregivers and loved ones to become active participants in change. It’s a journey of learning, letting go, and leaning into love and acceptance. Together, families and clinicians can cultivate the courage in clients to face uncertainty, and in doing so, help them discover that recovery is not just possible, but enduring. If you’d like to learn more about Family Intensive Recovery at The Greenhouse or how we support families in eating disorder and OCD treatment, reach out to our team today.
November 14, 2025
The Greenhouse at Thrive Wellness A New Chapter of Hope and Healing in Nevada On Friday, November 14 , we gathered with our partners at Molina Healthcare to share an important moment for our community. Together, we celebrated Molina’s generous $50,000 grant , an investment that is helping bring The Greenhouse to life. Their support is not only a financial contribution—it’s a statement of belief in the young people and families of Nevada who deserve access to compassionate, evidence-based mental healthcare close to home. This gathering marked the beginning of something we’ve dreamed about for years: a place designed specifically for adolescents and emerging adults to receive the care, connection, and support they need during some of the most vulnerable moments of their lives. Something New Is Growing In early 2026 , Thrive Wellness will open The Greenhouse , Nevada’s first residential treatment center devoted to adolescents and emerging adults navigating eating disorders, anxiety, and OCD . For too long, families have faced a heartbreaking dilemma—send their child far from home for treatment or go without the specialized care they need. The Greenhouse is our answer to that gap. It will be a place where young people can settle into an environment built for healing, where they are understood, supported, and surrounded by a team that believes in their capacity to recover. The Greenhouse represents a natural extension of our mission. It’s a living expression of our belief that recovery is possible—and that with the right support, families can find their footing again. 
November 11, 2025
Are you looking for a meaningful way to give back this holiday season? Thrive Wellness is excited to continue our 6th Annual Giving Tree Program in collaboration with Perenn Bakery this winter. This year, Thrive Wellness Reno and Perenn Bakery are proud to partner with Ronald McDonald House Charities® of Northern Nevada. The organization supports families with children receiving treatment at area hospitals, providing comfort, hope, and a home-away-from-home during challenging times. Ronald McDonald House Charities offers essential services, removes barriers, strengthens families, and promotes healing when children need healthcare the most. How It Works Simply take one (or a few) tags from the Giving Tree, each listing an item you can purchase and donate for residents of the Ronald McDonald House. Then, drop off your item(s) at one of our designated donation locations by Friday, December 19. Items Needed: Restaurant gift cards Walmart or Target gift cards Games, puzzles, and coloring books Toys (Barbie, Hot Wheels, Lego sets, craft sets, magnet blocks, baby dolls, action figures, journals, infant toys, etc.) Children's books (picture, chapter, and graphic novels) Toiletry sets (for adults) Lotion/self-care gift sets (for adults) Sweatshirts/hoodies (adults, XS-XXL) Scarves, gloves, fuzzy socks, pajamas (all sizes) Infant diapers, onesies, and baby bottles Bulk individually wrapped snacks (granola bars, chips, etc.) Please ensure all donations are new, in original packaging, and unwrapped. Donation Drop-Off Locations Please deliver donations by Friday, December 19, to one of the following sites: Thrive Wellness 201 W Liberty St., Suite 201, Reno, NV 89501 Perenn Grocery 7600 Rancharrah Pkwy, Suite 130, Reno, NV 89511 The first 50 people to return their donations will receive a complimentary ornament gift!  Why We Give Back Through our Giving Tree program, we’re honoring one of our core values at Thrive Wellness: staying rooted in community. This annual tradition allows us to give back to those who need support most during the holiday season. We invite you to join us by taking a tag at any Thrive or Perenn location and helping spread kindness throughout our community. There’s no better way to embrace the holiday spirit than by supporting local families with thoughtful, heartfelt donations. We are deeply grateful for your generosity and continued support. Thank you for helping us make a difference!
More Posts

Start your healing journey today

NEXT STEPS

Are you ready to find hope? We can't wait to connect you with the care you need. To get started with us, please reach out using the link below.   

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Learn more →

Perinatal

Mental Health

Learn more →

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Learn more →

Perinatal

Mental Health

Learn more →